MISS BIG AND BEAUTIFUL 2011

The Miss Big and Beautiful beauty pageant held on Sunday, April 1, 2012,and was awarded a car and cash prizes to the winners of the 5th edition of the pageant. The prizes were given to the winner, Chibuogwu Adaobi Promise from Anambra State, a pharmacist and a graduate of Madona University. Others are the 1st and 2nd runners-up, Lovina C.Nwankwo and Tracy Edwin, respectively. The event will take place at Marble Field Hotel and Event Centre, 35 Seinde Carlisto Crescent, off Oshodi Apapa Expressway, Oshodi, Lagos.

According to the CEO, Miss Big and Beautiful Beauty Pageant, Ambassador Austin Godswill Enehizena, a creative mind is a terrible thing to waste whether one is fat or not. “ Over the years, we have been made to accept the fact that you have to be slim to be crowned a beauty queen, but the question is, what will happen to those who aspire to enjoy this opportunity but are plus size? Ge-Swill Global Investment Ltd the Sole Custodian of The Big and Beautiful Pageant Show Project has been able to make a statement that you can also be big and be crowned a queen.


That is why we came together to create the Big and Beautiful Pageant show, which is a yearly event that helps plus size ladies to showcase and achieve their dreams irrespective of age or tribe. Due to research made, we realized that most plus size ladies lack confidence, feel inferior and do not appreciate their robust nature, which is the true representation of a beautiful African woman. Basically, the pageant show stands to orientate the plus size to be proud of who they are.”

Speaking on the process of selecting the contestants, Ambassador Enehizena said that the zoning process gives room for the enhancement of cross ethnic interactions, bonding diverse cultures in Nigeria. “A creative mind is a terrible thing to waste whether you are orobo or not. this was what I saw that made me create this pageant. We also have judges of integrity who determine the winner by their performances. We hope to make The Big and Beautiful event a TV reality show some day and we hope for sponsors too.”

                 Miss Big and Beautiful with Nollywood Actress Maureen Solomon

Plus Sized and yet Stylish to the Core

Imagine been the stylish, charismatic lady whom everybody admirers at your next social event!!!! "own it" with your confidence.

Adaora Ukok(Nolloywood Actress)

Imagine having men Gravitate towards you because they find you charming and irresistible!!
Imagine knowing exactly what to wear to flatter your shape and to be a stunner at every type of event.

Adaobi Chibuogwu (Miss BIG 'N' BEAUTIFUL 2011)

Imagine been totally self confident, no self doubts and no self critism.
Have you ever thought of what makes others so stylish have you thought of the extra time they put into their dressing? just to look good?

Well, You can dress some people in a beautiful outfit and they still act like a Dolt , yet other people walk in to a room, dressed in a T- shirt and a pair of shorts and they "own" the room

They move, act and behave beautifully and are admired by everyone.People gravitate toward them, they are quietly self confident and utterly charming.

True stylish people have Mastered 3 core elements which make up overall style

PHYSICAL
MENTAL
EMOTIONAl

Physical is the overall look, the 1st Impression we make.

Mental is knowing what to do or say with grace and style in any situation.

Emotional is our self confidence and inner peace, how we feel about ourselves.
Each one of these elements are integral to our overal style,
if one of this element is out of balance, then our total personal style is affected.
thats why some people exude style no matter what occasion or what they are wearing and others just don't cut it

Fashion as a Plus sized gives you more edge..if your fashion sense is tight, when ever you make a move it must be noticed, so why give anyone a reason to look down on what great style can come from you,

Be confident with who you are first, then with what you wear too,
Dress to flatter your body shape
Buy colours which really suits you
Mould your Shape with FITTED UNDERWEAR..(THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT)
Choose the right Accesories
Be gracious, well mannered and charming
Get professional Advice

Take a plunge and become a confident and stylish Plus Sized Diva today.

stephanie(meeee)

                                                 
I decided to use my pictures to also pass this message across...Thanks 

Gloria Ibru set to release first music album

After 25 years of performing on stage with her band, Ms Gloria Ibru, one of the daughters of late billionaire Olorogun Michael Ibru, is set to release her first music album. According to Gloria, the album will be a mixed grill of everything she does on stage; high life, jazz and gospel. The album will be out before the end of the year.

thumbs up girl.......

HERE on FASHREL, We identify the plus sized and their works.......we applaude them too......be proud of YOU.......Push yourself to discover the INNER YOU......

Woman is fired due to her breasts size

GUYS DO YOU PREFER BABES WITH BIGGER BOOBS OR THE AVERAGE NORMAL BOOBS????

COS YOU JUST HAVE TO READ THIS STORY ..........

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An American woman alleged she was fired from her job due to the size of her breasts. According to her account, the owners of the company were not happy with her dress, because it “distracted customers.”

Lauren Odes story, 28, was published in the New York Daily News, where she reports that her supervisor gave her the terrible news and the reasons for this decision.

She worked in a company of Orthodox Jews and her coordinator suggested that she should cover or hide her breasts.

Lauren says that when she joined the company asked if there was a dress code and the answer was: “Look around you and see what the entire world is wearing,” that’s why she decided to dress causally.

But the owners did not like her style and was fired. Now the girl is trying to sue them because she believes they imposed religious questions, clarifying that she was not in a synagogue but in a company.

Sex with the Plus Sized......Is it better than Sex with the Slim ONES????

So I got this post from someone  and I thought I should share it with my dear readers,
Its Says................
Here's why I have a thin boyfriend
Pls Any sex tips that can help ? I need some 


.......... I'm a plus size girl much bigger then my Boyfriend and we have sex but not as much, we have more oral sex and I feel bad that he does most of the work when having sex and I feel so bad that I'm a fat and can't even make love 2 the guy I care for. with out feeling like I'm going to hurt him. so plz if u have tips for me plz help me 
thank u......


so this post gave me the inspiration to write on "Plus Size' Sexual Insecurities" 
SO HERE'S MY QUESTION TO ALL LADIES AND GUYS WHO VISIT AND READ MY BLOG.....


GUYS------ What's your take on SEX with a plus sized woman, if you have had sex with a plus sized lady and you preferred it to having sex with the slim ladies, pls we need you opinion here, we need your advice also to my dear friend who sent in that post.


LADIES -------Same goes to you, what do you think on having sex with a plus sized man......send in you opinions..
lets make this as inetractive as possible...thank you all....

'Plus Size' Sexual Insecurities...Does This Bother You??

Being plus size can make a lot of things in life emotionally uncomfortable. Oftentimes, plus size women find themselves wondering what awful things people are whispering about behind their backs. One of the most uncomfortable moments can happen during sex. All to often plus size insecurities hinder a women's ability to enjoy their sexual side. After all, how can you enjoy sex if you are worried about what your partner is seeing and thinking. 

The first and likely most important thing to keep in mind when having sex with a bigger partner or if you yourself are big is how important it is to keep an open mind. we all wish that we could embark on the perfect sexual adventure every time where things just mesh and fall perfectly into place(pun fully intended), but the reality is that some things need a little work in order to run smoothly.this is especially the same when it comes to sex. Making love is something that you want to enjoy as much as physically possible and the best way to do that is to check your hang ups at the door. you are fat -  so what??  so why stress about it?? Get in there with the attitude that you re there to feel good and make your partner feel good and if it means having to try several positions or pile a few pillows under your pants, then so be it!!! Have a go at some of these and you will be loving you sex live in no time.....

Below are a few things you can help you in overcoming your plus size sexual insecurities.

Set the mood: 

its all in your hands to do what's right and set the right mood...... you have to fancy yourself to be able to set things in the right mood.

Your clothing: 

 

Most plus size ladies like to hide in their clothing, it's their security blanket. The very nature of sex usually means baring it all, but you don't necessarily have to bare it all to be sexy. There are a lot of clothing options that will not make you feel overexposed, but are sexy enough to get your guy going. Play into his fantasies. You can also purchase lingerie that will light your guy's fire and hide your problem areas. 

Don't over-think it: The most important thing to remember is that in the heat of moment your guy is not looking at your flaws. He isn't paying attention to all those things that consume your thoughts. When you over-think the situation, you aren't doing yourself any favors. Sometimes, just going with the flow and allowing yourself to get carried away, will wash away your insecurities. Remember if he's there with you, he is into you. He is aware of your flaws and is still turned on by you. Don't over-think it, don't push him away, relax and enjoy yourself.

Don't allow your insecurities to get in your way. Talk to your spouse, there is always a chance that some of the "issues" you think you have are the very things he finds sexy. After all, everyone has a different idea of what sexy is. Also, you never know if you open up to him, you may find that he has some insecurities of his own and that could be an opening for you to grow as a couple.

The Power of Love Includes Stress Relief

Calling Cupid: Love has a particularly welcome role in stress relief. Loving relationships can help relieve stress and boost your overall health. Find out how to reap the rewards.


Love does wonderful things for your state of mind, and it also offers natural stress relief. In healthy relationships, the power of love is strong enough to keep your heart happy and your mind and body healthy.

Stress Relief: How Love Helps


Sharing in life's joys and challenges is one of the great benefits of being in a relationship.One can’t ignore the fact that love is an extremely complex emotion, enveloped with lots of expectations and barriers. It’s not hard to find love around us. We love our family members, friends and even our pets. Little do we realize that love can act as a great stress buster resource.
As such, love is a natural feeling which is responsible for improved state of mind and improved state of health. You must have often heard people say, health and happiness go hand in hand.

"When you are in a loving marriage or a good relationship, you have somebody there to share your worries with, to talk through problems with, to enjoy free time with,You also have someone "to visualize the future with. Somebody who is there for you and witnesses your life"  Relationships can provide stress relief by simply not leaving you to shoulder every burden completely on your own.



A number of studies have found that people in healthy marriages live longer and have fewer health problems than people who are unhappily married or not in a relationship, according to Connolly. Such is the power of love. What’s more, people who are happily married not only benefit from stress relief, they suffer less often from depression, too.


A loving partner can share the responsibility of stressful situations, offer support, a listening ear, and advice when you need it. And when you need to remember happier, easier times, a loving partner can help with that as well.


Stress Relief: Mending Relationships


If you have a relationship with a spouse, partner, or loved one that is a little rocky, focus on fixing it. An unhealthy relationship is just one more stress or that you don't need, and repairing it can provide stress relief and improve your health — and, you'll just feel better about it.We all know that communication has a key role to play in stress reduction, and for effective communication we need a good companion. You will be able to reduce your stress drastically if you have a loving companion with whom you can share your issues of life.


Stress Relief: Warming Up to Relationships

Relationships are work but the work pays off. Just as exercise offers great relief from stress, so does the effort you exert in your relationship. Mending broken ties, focusing on love and affection, and communicating with loved ones offers psychological relief that can be felt in the physical realm.

Love is a complex emotion, often tangled with negative feelings but it is also something that transcends barriers. 

Stress Relief: Learning to Show Affection

Developing Love

Fixing a relationship may appear to be one of the most stressful elements in some lives. Taking time to mend broken relationships can offer relief from anxiety and stressed feelings. When the relationship becomes the source of stress, consider some of the following:

• Focus on the beginning of the relationship
• Keep good memories in the front of your mind
• Reach out to your partner
• Consider therapy or counseling
• Show affection
• Make lists of what you love about your partner
• Express your loving emotions

"Think about affection and how much you care about the person that you want to show affection to. Think about that a lot during the day," says Connolly.


Life presents many challenges and stressors, and you need someone there to support you through the difficult times — whether it's a good friend, family member, spouse, or partner. And it's equally important to have someone to share in happy times and celebrations. Take time to focus on the relationships in your life, and reap the benefits. Just knowing that you have love, support, and help from a loved one can give you positive stress relief.

I LOVE YOU ALL MA READERS!!!!!